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"It may be generations before we see the results of our
work." - Ayi Kwei Armah
The story of Deep
Field Relaxation (DFR).
What a surprise it is when you first realize that no-one knows why you are sick, no-one
can tell how you got sick and no-one can honestly tell you how to get well! For example a
homoeopath might suggest taking a remedy, a doctor would offer drugs, a new age therapist
might suggest anything from past-life therapy to herbs or a karmic boost.
In truth any problem is far too complex for any human mind to fathom. On
the other hand the cosmos has got it ALL sorted out. Every single molecule, every cell
desires to move towards harmony. That is to say, towards health.
How do we know that? Because the universe could not have kept going, age
after age unless the whole thing was founded in harmonic resonance. Even your
illness could not exist unless it was operating within the laws of
appropriateness. This will always be true.
And so it isn’t important whether your mind, and the mind of the therapist
can figure it out. What is needed is the courage to say honestly that we don’t
know what is wrong and the old idea of applying a favorite method may in fact do
little more than satisfy the practitioner’s ego.
Science loves to offer answers. But how many times do you get real answers? I
think, infrequently. By relying too much on peer group agreement, the use
of the method is not, and never can be, specifically tailored to each and every
individual need. Carl Jung believed we are the inheritors of all our ancestor’s
decisions. Who could claim to interpret all that information and make it work
uniquely for each of us?
As alternative practices proliferate, we are beginning to see that there is deeper
truth to be found in discovering our inabilities and drawing from the great power of
stepping aside and allowing universal mind to come in and take over. This is the central
point of Deep Field relaxation.
The honest healer admits We Don’t Know and, instead of pretending
channeling energy, or indulging in rituals or repeating the professor’s
teachings, just let it all go. The greatest benefit arises from detachment from
the desire for results.
Deep Field Relaxation (DFR) can be activated by refraining from the idea that involvement is
needed.
All we need to do is provide the venue or place and then facilitate only the deepest
relaxation for both patient and practitioner together. The biggest difficulty is the
mind’s gossipy interference. Trying to ‘empty’ the mind, as many
meditation teachers try to instruct us, in fact just causes conflict since the mind is not
meant to be 'quiet'. It is determined to be alert in case it is called on
urgently. In contrast once we allow the wandering mind to casually drift onto
anything except the problem at hand, the mind feels secure and the cosmos comes
into play. In that easy, undemanding state the dominant tendency is towards
harmony and then any appropriate changes are free to arise.
Why do we so often read in folk tales that it is the simpleton who saves the
village? This is because, as Gurdjeff said, "the educated man is not wise
and the wise man is not educated". Indulging in fancy mind games and
academic straight-jackets do nothing to loosen the mind, serving mainly to
entrench the ego-driven illusions. On the other hand experienced healers have no
need to prove their ability, since they know already that the power of the
universe has it all under control. Plants, animals, humans all exist within laws
of continuity and reproduction. You think God is going to let us all get so off
the beam that no more people will be created? That is the first impossibility.
The foundation of Deep Field Relaxation (DFR) is to allow yourself to be of service
to others and then relax in the comfort of Not Knowing whilst doing
the best that you can. So many of us have heard of God yet almost
none of us ever have enough faith that all will be well. This is because faith by itself
is like a glorious tree with no roots. Only by accessing the power of suffering can you
gain the personal experience which allows you to transfer faith into practical
usefulness.
Then and only then can you couple together your desire for loving kindness with skilful
action not contaminated by desire for predetermined results.
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